What if?

Its easy to fill ones imaginings with questions regarding a chosen path. If I had done this then maybe this could have been avoided; if I had not been so impetuous regarding this then maybe I would not be where I am now; this could have happened if I had only done this, if, if, if.

A debate that my husband and I always have is whether there is a divine plan to everything as is my belief, or as he recommends that there is a blueprint for ones pathway but because God has given everyone free will the choices that one makes dictates the outcome of one's life. But this is an unending source of discussion because if you made a choice and ended up at point X then maybe this was where you should have been - right according to plan!!

"... no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should."